You set all of your privacy settings here https://www.facebook.com/settings/?tab=privacy
Control your default privacy - set this to Friends. Or Custom. This is who can see your status updates, posts, photos, etc, whenever you post to facebook.
How you connect -
- Who can look you up using hte email address or phone number you provided.
- Do you want anyone who gets hold of your email address to be able to identify you on facebook? If so, set Everyone. If you're a teacher or someone in the public eye, you might not want this. So perhaps better to have 'friends of friends' - so the person would have to have not only your email address, but be a friend of your existing contacts on fb.
- Who can send you friend requests - same as above really - if you do'nt want to get friend requests from random people, don't set it to everyone. However, bear in mind that you *can* choose to ignore or block friend requests, so even if you do get random ones, you don't have to accept them as friends!
- Who can send you facebook messages? I'd set this to friends of friends....
Timeline and Tagging
- Who can see your timeline ? FRIENDS. Only. Nobody else.
- Who can see what others post on your timeline? FRIENDS. Only. Nobody else.
- Review posts friends tag you in before they appear on your timeline? ON - switch this on. If it's off, it means other people can tag you in a post and that will appear on your wall. You might not want that!
- Who can see posts you've been tagged in on your timeline? FRIENDS. Only. No-one else.
- Review tags frinds add to your own posts on facebook? ON - switch it on, same as above
- Who sees tag suggstions when photos that look like you are uploaded. Set to No-One. You really don't want this. Honestly.
Apps, Games and Websites
- Basicaly, here, go through every setting and link, and set everything to No, Disabled, No Thanks, and No-one.
You DO have to go through all of the links on this page to eventually get to the settings, to disable them (everything is enabled or ticked by default) - but it's well worth making hte effort to do so.